9 see joke: Bridge natural disposition is addlehead and Xiaoshu is recreant.

肖蜀梁生而胆小。

Flatter oneself is addlehead, never refute to the opinion of others, be like sheep to elder and ranking domesticate, also be docile and obedient to the spouse.

自以为，对别人的见从不反驳，对长辈和上级驯，对配偶也是百依百顺。