In the meantime, what Bendura showed, what Carol Dweck showed, what many others showed was that it's not enough, very often, its even detrimental to just give the, you know, positive, positive talk, the positive affirmation.
同时班德拉表明,卡罗尔·德韦克表明,还有其他许多人都表明,这还不够通常情况,只给你积极的言论,积极的肯
,无论来自外部或内部。