But not that much. What matters most is are they empathic.

但不最重，最重他们感同身受。

Rarely, if ever, does an empathic response begin with, " At least..."

有同理心回答几乎不太可能以“”至少”打头。

Well, I don't want to get rid of guilt because what that means I'm not being empathic and sensitive toward other people.

我不想脱罪恶感，因为我不想变得对他人冷漠无情。

But Covey says we should be working towards the big one—empathic listening— and that is listening with your left and your right brain.

但 Covey 说我们应该朝向更重大那一种－－同理倾听－－那用你左脑和右脑倾听。

So we want to be seen as an individual that is smart, successful, sporty and active, creative, empathic and possibly all that at once.

我们都想被视为聪明且成功人，擅长运动、活跃、富创造与同理心，能同时兼具这些优点更好。

Why? Because I see myself and now I want other people to see me as empathic as sensitive as under... as a nice guy.

为什么？因为我眼中自己和我希望别人眼中自己有同情心。