STEP 7 Fight fair. Stick to the argument at hand, and don't make generalizations or bring up past conflicts. Avoid yelling, dominating the discussion, and unconstructive criticism and insults.
On the 4th level we learn to analyze, this involves examining and breaking down information into components determining how the parts relate to one another and finding evidence to support generalizations.
Some of the statistical generalizations may be positive as some groups have reputations for being smart, for being loyal, for being brave, for all sorts of things that are not at all negative.
Maslow's definition of a peak experience: it's a generalization for the best moments of the human being, for the happiest moments of life, for experiences of ecstasy, rapture, bliss, of the greatest joy.