President Zine El Abidine Ben Ali stands erect and unsmiling, sports a helmet of implausibly jet-black hair and wears a long dress-coat, studded with medals.
Impossibly attractive and implausibly perfect models in adverts and in movies and on TV, you are much more likely to see naked or half-naked women than men.
And Freud suggested, perhaps not implausibly, that men who believe other men--who are obsessed with the sexuality of other men, are themselves projecting away their own sexual desires.