So it's the great leveler, what I do. It keeps me focused on what's important.

所我所做的是种平衡。它让我专注于重要的。

But so many other mothers are going through exactly what you are going through. Adds Arbiter: Babies are a great leveler.

“但是很多其他母亲也正经历着和你一样的。”比特补充道：“婴儿是一个很好的平衡者。